Yes, self-improvement is about awareness and sticking with it, it’s not just for January.
Self-improvement is a big job.
It’s like rebuilding a house. Some things need a little touch up, some could use repair, and sometimes a whole section needs to be torn down and rebuilt.
But it can’t just be non-stop work.
You need rest. A good meal. A day off to enjoy the sunshine or just do fun stuff without thinking much at all.
It may feel like you want to just get everything fixed right now but you’ve got to be patient with yourself and step back and admire all the work you’ve done and are doing along the way.
That’s the only way to stay encouraged for the long haul.
Real and lasting self-improvement is a lifetime achievement, not an overnight success.
And here is a real-life story of someone I know that mirrors much of this. Sticking with it is certainly a theme here too. Steve Darch, a breathing educator colleague has kindly allowed me share his story of:
Recovery from Chronic Asthma, COPD stage 2 and Bronchiectasis
“I played 36 holes of golf yesterday on a very hilly course and carried my clubs despite it being very wet and muddy underfoot.
I was never at any point out of breath, my energy and concentration levels were good and woke up this morning with no aches and pains!!
If five ýears ago having been hospitalised on a regular basis and diagnosed with Chronic Asthma, COPD stage 2, Bronchiectasis and taking every medication ever invented someone had told me I was going to be able to do this I would have laughed in their face.
I believe that my healing process is still continuing and although getting older I feel younger and more energetic by the year.
I can 100% put this down to correcting my breathing.
Since changing my breathing I have lost around three stone and maintained this loss (three years) despite at times not eating or drinking as I should. Coming off medication and in particular steroid medication and reduced emotional eating improved my digestive system as well. (NB never come off medications without your doctor’s consent, as this could be dangerous. Steve could only reduce his medications because his condition had improved).
I still monitor my breathing on a regular basis but have learnt to enjoy the breathing exercises and these are now built into my daily lifestyle.
I have been signed off by my NHS Consultant and my lung function continues to improve.
At the same time I have seen a huge reduction in lung infections, coughs, allergies, flu etc.
This did not happen overnight!!!
From observing my clients many expect unrealistic changes to happen quickly and give up on their breathing exercises too quickly because it can be hard work and involves personal discipline and effort.
I believe change happens slowly and gradually and we sometimes forget how far we have moved forward since changing our breathing.
If we also consider with ageing and continuous medication how our health might be now if still hyperventilating the changes for me have been massive”.
He is not surprisingly passionate about helping others. Steve’s Natural Breathing Training website.
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